Common Misconceptions about Japan/Japanese People
Don’t believe everything you read on the Internet, kiddo
For those of us living in Japan, few things can be more eye-rolling than reading comments or articles clearly written by individuals who either haven’t been here or have only spent a couple of weeks on holiday. The Internet allows for boundless possibilities but sometimes it also means that less than accurate information can also spread like wildfire. When it comes to Japan, between the distance and the language barrier, verifying information sometimes is not as easy and discerning between trusted sources can seem a bit daunting. Lucky for you, here I am to dispel some common myths I’ve read or heard about Japan and Japanese people:
Japan is a very technologically advanced country
A lot of media loves to portray Japan as a sort of technological utopia, where everything is hi-tech and robots are everywhere. While it’s true that Tokyo has a lot of futuristic features, Japan is the world’s leading robot manufacturer and is still one of the most prominent countries with regard to the automotive industry, daily life is surprisingly low-tech compared to other developed countries. Yes, we love our vending machines, our nice toilets, and our sushi conveyor-belt restaurants. But we also have to deal with faxes, still have to deal with a lot of paper for certain bureaucratic procedures, still rely on personal stamps as individual signatures, and a long etc. Furthermore, in some cases, certain ATMs do not work at night and even may stop working for a few days during the end-of-year holidays. The cherry on top: it’s 2022 and many government offices still use floppy discs. Yes, this is not a typo. Floppy discs. A true blast from the past.
What you’ve been told about Japanese-style strikes is probably not true
One of the most hilarious hoaxes about Japanese culture I’ve seen over the years. Mainly a very old urban legend among Spanish-speaking countries, which the Internet has more or less further warped internationally. It generally goes with the story that Japanese workers, when on strike, work twice as much to overload production. While this is rooted in a perception of a strong work ethic, this is not the way Japanese strikes actually take place. Strikes are actually quite rare in Japan and generally arranged in advance without serious work disruption, when not outright banned as strikes are forbidden in certain types of jobs.
Japanese people can’t do irony or sarcasm
Once you know how the indirectness of Japanese culture makes Japanese people more adept at subtle jabs, you realize the absurdity of this belief. This misconception originated years ago in the general advice of refraining to make sarcastic or ironic remarks when speaking with Japanese people. Particularly if one’s fluency in Japanese is not perfect. Which makes a lot of sense since irony and sarcasm require a deep shared context to be properly understood. Even if you’re speaking with a Japanese acquaintance who may seem more or less fluent in English, unless you know each other very well, sarcastic jokes may not land as desired simply because they may not know you well enough to know if you’re being serious or not. But what started as just common sense advice, somehow turned into a very silly myth.
It’s harder to make friends with Japanese people
If you hear this one, take a moment to check who is telling this nonsense. In my experience, 9 out of 10 times, it will be someone who is not fluent in the language, is stuck in an expat bubble and maybe, came to Japan right after graduating from university in their country of origin and therefore has zero or very little experience with adult life in other countries. Japanese people are not so different at a fundamental level, and unless you’re the kind of person who calls anyone a friend after a 5-min chat over beers, chances are that your circle of friends was slowly built over time, perhaps sparked over shared interests or shared experiences. Making friends as an adult can be challenging but not impossible, and this is a normal phenomenon everywhere, not just in Japan.
Japan is too expensive
While there’s a small kernel of truth rooted in the insane prices of pre-bubble burst Japan back in the 80s and early 90s, nowadays Japan is far from being a particularly expensive country. Your mileage may vary of course, and your perception may differ depending on where you come from. Tokyo is definitely not a cheap city, but for those coming from Australia or the most prominent cities of Western Europe, Tokyo is surprisingly cheap. Not just as a tourist traveler eating out every day but also in terms of lifestyle. Rent and utility prices are much cheaper in Tokyo compared to cities like Barcelona, London, Paris, etc. Personally, as a Spaniard, I only complain about grocery prices, but it’s just that groceries and fruits are insanely cheap in Spain. But the overall balance for Japan still ends up on the cheaper side.
Japanese fashion is crazy and over the top
Well, that may be true if we only take a look at what some may be wearing around Harajuku or Ikebukuro on a Friday or Saturday night. But for the average population, Japanese people tend to favor understated clothing, normcore aesthetics, and generally sober styles. During the weekend, the streets and public transportation may be peppered with some more color but if you’re thinking that people here love to cosplay every day, you’ll probably be disappointed.
Japanese cities are always packed and everywhere is crowded
Let me preface this by saying that Japan is not Shibuya. Yeah, there’s a reason why whenever you see a photo of a ridiculously crowded pedestrian crossing it’s always the same location: Shibuya’s Scramble Square. And it’s because it’s relatively unusual. A misconception aided by touristic images of busy places such as commercial or entertainment districts in Tokyo or Osaka, but as soon as you walk a few minutes further away from the main subway/train stations, you realize that urban spaces in Japan are surprisingly quiet and not crowded at all. Granted, some public transportation lines during rush hour are a sight to behold.
Tokyo is not Japan
While this is not exactly a misconception per se, some minor misconceptions about Japan thrown around in blogs or social media have to do with the fact that some people visit or move to Tokyo and then feel compelled to have an opinion on an entire country based on very limited interactions. Just to put things into perspective, imagine a foreigner moving to Manhattan, who after a few months living in NY starts to provide all sorts of insight about American people, all of them, despite having very little experience in other American regions. You wouldn’t take this person’s opinions seriously, right? Well, most foreigners in Japan are concentrated in Tokyo, for obvious reasons related to professional demand and the job market. But just like any other country, culture varies a lot across regions, and casual interactions change a lot depending if you’re in Tohoku or Kyushu or Kanto, etc.
As a general rule of thumb, while it’s advisable to have some cultural awareness when you are in a foreign country, preconceptions can work against you if you don’t have an open mind and simply go with the flow and pay attention to your surroundings, rather than become fixated in whatever other may have told you. Japanese people are not unfathomable aliens, they’re regular folks like you and me. Keep that in mind and you’ll be ok.
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